Just got broken up with and feels like your world is crushing down without them? Well love dont worry here are some tips to get over them

1.Remember

Sometimes when we tend to get into a bad breakup we start thinking they was the perfect person in the world and they were all we have. But sometimes we have to remember that we broke up for a reason.

You also have to remember was this person loyal to you? Did they give you the treatemnt you deserved? If you said no to both of these questions then the breakup was probably for the best.

What I mean by “probably for the best” is you get to break free from a relationship that you didnt get treated right in or your ex partner failed to take care of a wonderful person like you. You deserve better, always remember that.

2. Attachement

When we feel these emotions that means we were too attached and gave all your energy to this person and also loved this person a lot. But remember before you give your love to someone make sure you love yourself first.

How to know if your attached to someone is feeling if they leave your world will break and everything else is hopeless. The difference between loving someone and being attached to someone is love is very at ease while attachement is diffcult.

Let me explain. When you love someone it should be easy, you should feel happy with that person and can be yourself. You should see a future with them and sometimes may catch yourself putting their needs before your own and that u trust them.

Attachement is diffcult because you place or rely your happiness on them and you may start manipulating them and becoming selfish. Or this was the other way around between you and your partner. So ask yourself, was the relationship you was in was love or attachement?

3. Letting Go

Letting go may seem the hardest for you since you either loved this person very much or was attached. So here are some ways of letting go

• Delete all of those memories you got of them in your phone
• Any items you got that remind you of them throw it away or storage it in a box and hide it from yourself
• Start accepting that if your relationship was really love you guys wouldnt have broken up in the first place.
• Start backing trying to find yourself and loving yourself
• Block them on everything and I mean everything
• Find a distraction to take your mind off them
• Remind yourself that you are worthy of true love and not fake love

4. Healing

Healing is the last stage of trying to get over a bad breakup. This is time where you start loving yourself all over again. Remember start focusing on your self like your hobbies and start making goals.

Accept that your relationship is over and give yourself time to greive and dont be to hard on yourself. Make sure to keep yourself first and not second right now because you have to take care of your self and your mental health.

I hope this blog is helpful for overcoming your break-up. I love you

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